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Judo Principles for Daily Life: Balance, Flexibility, and Adaptation

Plus —the No. 1 cure for stress, Learning Brain vs Survival Brain, and Train like a Jedi with Pema Chödrön

Issue 55 | October 2025
Read Time: 7 minutes

THE SHIFT

In reading Norman Doidge, M.D.’s book The Brain’s Way of Healing, I have become increasingly fascinated by non-mainstream approaches to cultivating mental health. 

The chapter I found most compelling focuses on the work of Moshe Feldenkrais, a pioneering movement educator and physical therapist. Feldenkrais developed a method that emphasizes awareness through movement, helping individuals retrain their nervous system and rediscover functional, efficient patterns of motion. 

His approach is grounded in the idea that subtle, mindful movement can create profound changes not only in the body but also in cognition, emotion, and overall well-being.

Feldenkrais drew inspiration from his extensive study of judo, in which he earned a black belt and became one of the first Europeans to train at the Kodokan in Japan. 

Principles from judo — such as yielding rather than opposing force, using balance and leverage, and continuous adaptation — deeply influenced his method. Feldenkrais applied these ideas to movement, emphasizing that one does not “fight” muscular tension or habitual patterns but instead works with the body’s existing forces, redirecting and refining them for greater ease and efficiency.

Naturally, I became interested in how judo principles might be applied to mental and emotional well-being. 

While there are many potential lessons, there are a few I particularly focus on in sessions with clients, guiding them to cultivate awareness, adaptability, resilience, and the ability to work with rather than against their own patterns.

Ju (柔) – Gentleness & Yielding

Meaning in judo: Instead of meeting strength with strength, you give way, redirect, and use the opponent’s momentum. A push can be turned into a pull, and a charge can be transformed into a throw.

Psychological application: When we meet inner conflict (anxiety, self-criticism, intrusive thoughts), the instinct is often to resist or suppress. But what we resist tends to push back harder. 

Yielding doesn’t mean giving up, it means not opposing directly. By leaning into the experience, acknowledging it, and redirecting it, we reduce struggle and open the way for transformation. 

Practices like mindfulness, acceptance, or self-compassion embody this. Instead of fighting panic, one breathes with it. Instead of attacking negative self-talk, one listens to it, then gently shifts the dialogue.

Kuzushi (崩し) – Breaking Balance

Meaning in judo: This is the principle of breaking an opponent’s balance as the first and essential step in executing a technique. Before a throw or sweep can be effective, the judoka must create instability in the opponent’s stance or posture, making them vulnerable to movement or redirection. It emphasizes strategy over strength, showing that control comes from subtle shifts and timing rather than brute force.

Psychological application: Our mental habits and defense mechanisms create a kind of “psychic balance.” Sometimes that balance is rigid. It’s a false stability built on denial, avoidance, or overcontrol. Transformation requires a disruption of that rigidity. Small shifts — a new perspective, a surprising question, or an unexpected moment of vulnerability — can unbalance fixed patterns and entrenched thinking, creating an opening for growth. 

You want to look for ways to destabilize an old belief system just enough for new meaning to arise. Become aware of habitual thoughts, behaviors, or bodily tension that reinforce depression. Thoughts like “I’m worthless,” “Nothing will change,” or a slumped posture that reinforces low mood. Start by labeling the thought, “There is that thought again.” Then explore “What other interpretations might also be true?”

Renraku” (連絡) - A Combination or Flow of Techniques

Meaning in judo:  No two opponents, throws, or matches are identical. Techniques must adapt in real time. The ability to seamlessly link movements depending on the opponent’s response reflects adaptability in action. In judo, rigidity is defeat; adaptability is mastery.

Psychological application: The human mind naturally craves certainty and fixed answers, but this very tendency can become a source of suffering. Mental health struggles often emerge from rigidity, the persistent clinging to a single role, belief system, protective strategy, or self-concept. 

When individuals respond to life’s challenges with inflexible thinking, they may become trapped in maladaptive patterns, such as rumination, avoidance, or compulsive behaviors. This often leads to psychological “collapse,” emotional burnout, or relational conflict.

Alternatively, psychological flexibility, the ability to adapt one’s thoughts, emotions, and behaviors in response to changing circumstances, allows people to reinterpret challenges, experiment with new behaviors, and integrate diverse perspectives. 

This is one of the capacities I prioritize cultivating in my clients, given that psychological flexibility is a robust and empirically validated predictor of mental health, adaptive functioning, and resilience.

In exploring the intersections of Feldenkrais, judo, and mental health, we see a common thread: the power of awareness, adaptability, and working with rather than against what is present. 

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